HOW I WORK:

 

SWIPE and communicate on the dating apps for you...as you!

I do all of the work and you show up for the date.  Some clients choose to be very involved in this process and like numerous daily updates of who is a potential match.  Others prefer that I tell them when and where to meet the date.  

 

FOCUS and organize your search

Most people date never bothering to consider what they want, let alone who is actually good for them.  I will work with you to determine what it is you're really looking for in a partner and then we'll refine the search accordingly. 

TROUBLESHOOT past patterns 

We've all made mistakes while dating.  What's important is identifying them going forward.  This is essential in order to establish new healthy dating and relationship behaviors.

ENSURE that you have great profile pictures

First impressions count!  I'll tell you how many pictures you need and what they should look like, helping you highlight your best features while being honest about what isn't working (yes, I'll actually tell you that the photo of your dog licking your face isn't attractive).  

CHOOSE the right dating apps
Each app is different and it seems like every week there's a new one.  I keep track of them, and who's on them, so you don't have to.  Let my expertise help you select the apps with the appropriate target audience and the greatest chance for your success. 

 

WRITE and edit your dating app profile

Self-promotion can be hard and writing about yourself can be overwhelming.  We'll review the profile you have or collaborate on a new one to ensure that you're putting your best foot forward. 
 

IMPROVE your communication

We'll discuss strategies both online and offline, to improve your game and yield more first and, as importantly, second dates.
 

ADVISE as a dating coach

Having a second set of eyes present can make all the difference; I'm your second set of eyes.  I'll help you prepare for dates--we'll decide what to wear, where to meet, how to gracefully end the date, go over safe and engaging subjects, as well as help you shine on the dates.  I'll be available throughout the process: crafting/editing texts once you've graduated from the app to advising on when to respond, overseeing the process looking for red flags, working together on strengthening and building boundaries when necessary, and alerting you when poor decisions are about to be exercised.  I support and assist you on your journey into a healthy, happy, and committed relationship. 







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